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Saturday, June 14, 2008

I don't think anyone ever told me that relationships were easy. Thank God they didn't. I now know why people say "you make me a better person." I hate that. First, no one MAKES anyone do anything. Second, I always thought that it was the OTHER person that made you a better person and thats not true. Being in a relationship is teaching me what I don't like about myself, how I could function better in certain situations, etc. And that knowledge (and subsequent action) is what is making me a better person. It doesn't have much to do with the person...it has a lot to do with the relationship itself. How it works, how it doesn't, etc.

Maybe I'll write more about this later when I'm not completely exhausted. I worked 8 hours today, and then went out with a friend from work. It was a lot of fun, but I've been on the go for about 13 hours and I'm just done...

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think that what most people mean when they say, "you make me a better person" is more along the lines of "you make me WANT to be a better person." The other person instills a desire in the first to be more and do more. That's been my experience, anyway.